50 Quotes That INFPs Will Instantly Identify With
INFPs are the imaginative, introspective idealists in the Myers-Briggs® personality system. These individuals are guided by a deep, internal set of subjective values and ethics and strive to live peaceful and harmonious lives. While on the outside they may seem soft-spoken and gentle, on the inside they have a fiery determination to do what is right and stand up for the causes they believe in. More than anything they want to live with integrity and make the world a better place.
Reading these quotes will give you a little glimpse into the INFP way of thinking! Not all the people quoted here are INFPs, but they each are saying something that will resonate with this personality type.
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50 Quotes that INFPs Will Instantly Identify With
“And now here is my secret, a very simple secret: it is only with the heart that one can see rightly, what is essential is invisible to the eye.”
– Antoine de Saint-Exupery
“Once you label me, you negate me.”
– Soren Kierkegaard
“In the long run, the sharpest weapon of all is a kind and gentle spirit.”
– Anne Frank
“Logic will get you from A to B. Imagination will take you everywhere.”
– Albert Einstein
“You’re only given a little spark of madness. You mustn’t lose it.”
– Robin Williams
“Heaven knows we need never be ashamed of our tears, for they are rain upon the blinding dust of earth, overlaying our hard hearts. I was better after I had cried, than before – more sorry, more aware of my own ingratitude, more gentle.”
– Charles Dickens
“A wonderful fact to reflect upon, that every human creature is constituted to be that profound secret and mystery to every other.”
– Charles Dickens
“When I look at a person, I see a person – not a rank, not a class, not a title.”
– Criss Jami
“The most important things are the hardest to say. They are the things you get ashamed of, because words diminish them — words shrink things that seemed limitless when they were in your head to no more than living size when they’re brought out. But it’s more than that, isn’t it? The most important things lie too close to wherever your secret heart is buried, like landmarks to a treasure your enemies would love to steal away. And you may make revelations that cost you dearly only to have people look at you in a funny way, not understanding what you’ve said at all, or why you thought it was so important that you almost cried while you were saying it. That’s the worst, I think. When the secret stays locked within not for want of a teller but for want of an understanding ear.”
– Stephen King
“Every great dream begins with a dreamer. Always remember, you have within you the strength, the patience, and the passion to reach for the stars and change the world.”
– Harriet Tubman
“To be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing its best day and night to make you like everybody else means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight and never stop fighting.”
– E.E. Cummings
“There is freedom waiting for you,
On the breezes of the sky,
And you ask “What if I fall?”
Oh but darling,
What if you fly?”
– Erin Hanson
“Sometimes people are beautiful. Not in looks. Not in what they say. Just in what they are.”
– Markus Zusak
“Nobody realizes that some people expend tremendous energy merely to be normal.”
– Albert Camus
“If I can stop one heart from breaking, I shall not live in vain.”
– Emily Dickinson
“Don’t you think it’s better to be extremely happy for a short while, even if you lose it, than to be just okay for your whole life?”
– Audrey Niffenegger
“Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and it’s better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring.”
– Marilyn Monroe
“You don’t have a soul, Doctor. You are a soul. You have a body, temporarily.”
– Walter M. Miller
“Even in literature and art, no man who bothers about originality will ever be original: whereas if you simply try to tell the truth (without caring twopence how often it has been told before) you will, nine times out of ten, become original without ever having noticed it.”
– C.S. Lewis
“Closed in a room, my imagination becomes the universe, and the rest of the world is missing out.”
– Criss Jami
“I must be a mermaid…I have no fear of depths and a great fear of shallow living.”
– Anais Nin
“Oh, it’s delightful to have ambitions. I’m so glad I have such a lot. And there never seems to be any end to them– that’s the best of it. Just as soon as you attain to one ambition you see another one glittering higher up still. It does make life so interesting.” – L.M. Montgomery
“The pathos and gift of life is that we cannot know which will be our defining heartbreak, or our most victorious joy.”
– Alexandra Fuller
“We are what we pretend to be, so we must be careful about what we pretend to be.” – Kurt Vonnegut
“I have noticed that doing the sensible thing is only a good idea when the decision is quite small. For the life-changing things, you must risk it.”
– Jeanette Winterson
“Conformity is deformity.”
– Sharon Desruisseaux
“Yes: I am a dreamer. For a dreamer is one who can only find his way by moonlight, and his punishment is that he sees the dawn before the rest of the world.” – Oscar Wilde
“Stories of imagination tend to upset those without one.” – Terry Pratchett
“The moment you doubt whether you can fly, you cease for ever to be able to do it.” – J.M. Barrie
“You can’t depend on your eyes when your imagination is out of focus.” – Mark Twain
“A well-composed book is a magic carpet on which we are wafted to a world that we cannot enter in any other way.” – Caroline Gordon
“Imagination does not become great until human beings, given the courage and the strength, use it to create.” – Maria Montessori
“I believe in the power of the imagination to remake the world, to release the truth within us, to hold back the night, to transcend death, to charm motorways, to ingratiate ourselves with birds, to enlist the confidences of madmen.” ― J.G. Ballard
“We are such stuff as dreams are made on, and our little life is rounded with a sleep.”
― William Shakespeare
“Imagination will often carry us to worlds that never were, but without it we go nowhere.”
― Carl Sagan
“Well, we all make mistakes, dear, so just put it behind you. We should regret our mistakes and learn from them, but never carry them forward into the future with us.” – L.M. Montgomery
“I love that idea that if you know someone’s story, it’s impossible not to love them. This is potentially hokey but incredibly true, as far as I’m concerned.” – Andrew Garfield
“No bird soars too high if he soars with his own wings.” — William Blake
“Keep your feet on the ground, but let your heart soar as high as it will. Refuse to be average or to surrender to the chill of your spiritual environment.” — Arthur Helps
“What lies behind you and what lies in front of you, pales in comparison to what lies inside of you.” — Ralph Waldo Emerson
“Live your beliefs, and you can turn the world around.” — Henry David Thoreau
“The simple act of listening to someone and making them feel as if they have truly been heard is a most treasured gift.” — L. A. Villafane
“You must find the place inside yourself where nothing is impossible.” — Deepak Chopra
“Being vulnerable is a strength, not a weakness.” — Selena Gomez
“The power of imagination makes us infinite.” — John Muir
“Put your heart, mind and soul into even your smallest acts. This is the secret to success.” — Swami Sivananda
“Shoot for the Moon, and if you miss, you will still be among the stars.” — Les Brown
“Don’t count the days. Make the days count.” — Muhammad Ali
“There’s no ‘should’ or ‘should not’ when it comes to having feelings. They’re part of who we are and their origins are beyond our control. When we can believe that, we may find it easier to make constructive choices about what to do with those feelings. […] There’s the good guy and the bad guy in all of us, but knowing that doesn’t ever need to overwhelm us.” – Mr. Rogers
”Everyone’s broken. The only difference is how.” – Anna-Marie McLemore
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Good morning, Susan.
I like all of them ?, but these two really resonate with me:
“There is freedom waiting for you,
On the breezes of the sky,
And you ask “What if I fall?”
Oh but darling,
What if you fly?”
– Erin Hanson
“I must be a mermaid…I have no fear of depths and a great fear of shallow living.”
– Anais Nin
Thank you for the post. I can see you put a lot of work into it, and, as in everything you do, it shines ?.
Gilbert
I would like to add a quote which says that
Some call me crazy while some call me for advice.
I’m an INFP, so I I had to laugh out loud when my favorite quote (for years now) was the very first one the list — it is only with the heart we see rightly, the essential is invisible to the eye. Quite a few of the others resonated as well. Thanks for writing such a unique and uplifting post. 🙂
I think that everything that happens to us is our fault —but that’s not OUR fault.. Quentin Crisp
Oh my! I love quotes and these are spectacular. Thank you for compiling these and sharing them with us!
Out of adversity arises opportunity.
“If I can stop one heart from breaking, I shall not live in vain.”
LOVE this quote!
“And now here is my secret, a very simple secret: it is only with the heart that one can see rightly, what is essential is invisible to the eye.”
– Antoine de Saint-Exupery
“The most important things are the hardest to say. They are the things you get ashamed of, because words diminish them — words shrink things that seemed limitless when they were in your head to no more than living size when they’re brought out. But it’s more than that, isn’t it? The most important things lie too close to wherever your secret heart is buried, like landmarks to a treasure your enemies would love to steal away. And you may make revelations that cost you dearly only to have people look at you in a funny way, not understanding what you’ve said at all, or why you thought it was so important that you almost cried while you were saying it. That’s the worst, I think. When the secret stays locked within not for want of a teller but for want of an understanding ear.”
– Stephen King
All if them, especially..
When I look at a person, i see a person – not a rank not a class, not a title
In the long run the sharpest weapon of all is a kind and gentle spirit (oh how Anne would weep to see what happened to her happening to the poor Palestinians.. a hollocaust ALL over again)
(This one made me cry) If i can stop one heart from breaking, i shall not live in vain
And as always – Pray for the innocent Palestinian men, women and CHILDREN who have NO military making apartheid Israels attacks GENOCIDE.. from the river to the sea Palestine will be free ❤????????❤????????❤????????❤????????❤????????❤????????
Why talk politics here? What is that all about?Anyhow, you’re misinformed. Palistinians do not want peace. They want the destruction of Israel, like the rest of the Islamic world wants the destruction of Israel. If Palistinians would choose to raise their children without a perpetual hate for Israel, and would choose to work together, things would change for the better. Better even if they would choose to work at all for a change.
Why talk politics here? What is that all about?Anyhow, you’re misinformed. Palistinians do not want peace. They want the destruction of Israel, like the rest of the Islamic world wants the destruction of Israel. If Palistinians would choose to raise their children without a perpetual hate for Israel, and would choose to work together, things would change for the better. Better even if they would choose to work at all for a change.
We are so lucky you were able to produce an objective comment. With no bias what so ever.
I have read exactly one book by Stephen King, and it terrified me so much that I never plan to read another. Yet his was the quote that brought tears to my eyes, because it reflects the most carefully-guarded part of my life.
I have read exactly one book by Stephen King, and it terrified me so much that I never plan to read another. Yet his was the quote that brought tears to my eyes, because it reflects the most carefully-guarded part of my life.
Your quote from the Messenger was ????… I still remember the first time I read it my mind was blown away and almost for a mere moment my eyes opened to the secrets of the cosmos.
I resonate with every one of these quotes. My favorites being from Stephen King, Robin Williams, Albert Einstein, Anne Frank, Albert Camus, Harriet Tubman, Marilyn Monroe, Criss Jami, & Walter M. Miller; but the one that instantly brought tears to my eyes, even trying to hold it back, was
“There is freedom waiting for you,
On the breezes of the sky,
And you ask “What if I fall?”
Oh but darling,
What if you fly?”
– Erin Hanson
Another quote I can’t seem to get enough of and follows me everywhere is
“Not everyone who wanders is lost.”
Thank you for this beautiful post.
I particularly identified with the Stephen King, C.S. Lewis and Sharon Desruisseaux quotes
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Almost all my life I thought I was weird. Thank you for the work you do profiling personality types. Now I realise I am perfectly normal and I have kindred spirits all over the world. The quote about it being hardwork to just appear normal is quite hilarious for me, because as an INFP it is something I have to do often!!
definitely the Stephen King one, as I’m in the process of trying to put my own writing out into the world, and it is quite terrifying. As much as you want to do it, there is this part of you that thinks, what if people actually understand me – more than even I do ha ha!
I’d definitely have to say that “conformity is deformity” is my favorite. Short, sweet, and to the point without beating around any bushes.
Definitely my favorite: “When I look at a person, I see a person – not a rank, not a class, not a title.”
– Criss Jami
I love the Steven King one!
Me too! I love when a question is asked and answered in a quote!
Wow! What a great article, The Thread of Truth that’s in every quote in this article is The Universal Truth. Seems to me we all HAD to be made by the same One. ALL of us on this planet are just Different Garments made by the Same Taylor that clothed the Spirit of Operation for the Person. That’s why I feel Religion shouldn’t exist. Are not these folks as dead to the past as Jesus, Mohammed or Gandhi? These three had a INFP/HSP like personality trait similar to the trait that makes up the brilliance of Alanis Morissette. Perhaps if you have seen the Documentary,’Sensitive,
The Untold Story, you’d agree?( I’d love to hear back) I’m happy to be from Canada as she is and I’m sure her lyrics has saved millions of lives. But I wouldn’t be a worshiper in the Church of Alanis either, could you imagine that Jagged little Pill? But I’d go to a concert. What’s the difference? Keep up the great work!
The quote by E.E. Cummings spoke to me on a visceral level! But Erin Moran’s quote is one I have always lived by…
I have three favorites: E.E. Cummings’ quote brought tears to my eyes because I feel he said it directly to me!
I also love the one by Criss Jami “Closed in my room, my imagination becomes the universe…” This is how I survived my abusive parents.
And Steven King, oh my heart, “…but for want of an understanding ear.”
e.e.cummings
I love the J.K.Rowling quote.
The Stephen King quote. ALL. THE. WAY…
….like wow.
I forgot how much I love E.E. Cummings. When I saw her quotes it all came back. My favorite is the one about conformity.
That quote from Stephen King was so close to I once wrote in one of my short stories, it was almost creepy. I loved the whole article.
Thank you for this very interesting and “spot on” list of quotes for INFP’s. I immediately identified with E.E. Cummings, Oscar Wilde, Terry Pratchett,
Criss Jami, Harriet Tubman, Walter M. Miller and Ralph Waldo Emerson.
I have taken a note of these to inspire me in moments of frustration and doubt.
Another quote which soothes me is (I don’t know who said it)
“I am who I am and that is enough.”