The Top 3 Best Matches for the INTP Personality Type
Finding the right match can sometimes feel like finding a needle in a haystack, especially if you identify as an INTP “Prodigy” personality type. Known for being the quintessential “thinkers,” INTPs often feel like aliens navigating a world of surface-level chit-chat and emotional drama. Finding someone who can not only jive with their abstract way of thinking but who also has chemistry with them can be a complicated process.
Many theorists have gone about deciding on a “best type” for each Myers-Briggs® personality type. But I wanted to get a result that focused more on what INTPs themselves suggested. This is why I sent a survey to over 85,000 friends, clients, email subscribers, and social media followers to find out who each type REALLY felt compatible with in their real-life experiences.
Now that 240 INTPs have completed the survey, I feel like it’s finally time to dive into the data and see who they feel the most compatible with.
Before diving into the details, I need to add a disclaimer. Happiness is attainable for anyone, regardless of their Myers-Briggs® personality type. Relationships are founded on commitment, understanding, love, and trust. Many couples thrive in relationships that may have seemed difficult at first but grew into something beautiful and strong. Sometimes the most incompatible type pairings can create the most growth!
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The 3 Best Matches for the INTP Personality Type
INTJs: The Strategists of Your Dreams
INTJs (Introverted, Intuitive, Thinking, Judging) are the strategic masterminds of the personality world. They’re independent, intellectually curious, and revel in abstract theories—just like you, dear INTP. But where INTJs shine brightest is in their ability to bring a laser-focused approach to life. Think of them as the architects who can take your incredible, unbridled ideas and turn them into concrete plans.
Why INTJs and INTPs Click:
- Shared Intellectual Curiosity: Both types love to explore theories, ideas, and possibilities. If you’re daydreaming about a groundbreaking scientific theory, your INTJ partner is probably mapping out its practical applications.
- Balancing Act: INTJs bring structure to the table, while INTPs bring flexibility. This dynamic duo can cover all bases—where one builds the framework, the other injects creativity.
- Abstract Connection: Both types are more interested in the “big picture” than in trivial details. Conversations flow naturally from one complex idea to another, making both feel understood and intellectually stimulated.
INTJs are your ideal partners in crime for plotting world domination—or at least for brainstorming how to revolutionize your fields of interest.
One INTP shared:
“We’re both INTs, but with him the bills get paid, we keep a better schedule than I did on my own, and I’m free to explore my interests. He doesn’t barge in on me but we’re up for chatting on the couch and we can even (gasp) get romantic easily enough.”
ENTPs: The Debate Champions
And now, of course, the ENTPs (Extraverted, Intuitive, Thinking, Perceiving)—the ultimate partners for INTPs. Sharing the same cognitive functions, these extroverted twins are just as flexible, open-minded, and intellectually curious as you. If you’re looking for someone to break you out of your shell and push you into exciting new territories, look no further.
Why ENTPs and INTPs Are Soulmates:
- Cognitive Kinship: With the same cognitive functions, ENTPs and INTPs often feel like kindred spirits. Whether it’s debating new theories or brainstorming the next big thing, this pair thrives on intellectual stimulation.
- Burst of Energy: While INTPs can sometimes get lost in their own minds, ENTPs inject a burst of enthusiasm and vitality into the relationship, encouraging you to explore the world more actively.
- Debate Enthusiasts: ENTPs love a good debate and aren’t afraid to challenge you. This not only keeps you on your toes but also helps refine your theories and ideas. And arguing without any fear of hurt feelings is an added bonus!
ENTPs make life an exhilarating ride, transforming mundane routines into adventures filled with spirited discussions and endless possibilities.
One INTP shared:
“There’s a lot of excitement, adventure, and laughter. I couldn’t imagine anyone else being better for me.”
INFJs: The Gentle Visionaries
INFJs (Introverted, Intuitive, Feeling, Judging) bring a unique blend of warmth and empathy to the relationship, while still indulging in the depths of theory and insight that you cherish. Known as the “Mystics” INFJs are focused, insightful, and interested in concepts and ideas. While many other types would want to focus on concrete realities, INFJs will join you for the ride and listen with empathy and understanding as you express yourself. As fellow introverts, they’ll also understand your need for alone time – just make sure to give them some quality one-on-one time and words of affirmation to show that you care.
Why INFJs and INTPs Harmonize:
- Empathy Meets Logic: INFJs add the warmth and empathy of their Feeling side, making your shared world a more supportive and nurturing place. They value your dreams and support your pursuits, while you bring clarity and logical thoroughness to their big ideas and goals.
- Conscientious Companionship: INFJs are conscientious and gentle, often going out of their way to ensure you feel understood and appreciated. They find joy in the clarity you bring to their inner world, and they can share anything with you without fear that you’ll think it’s too “out there” or “too abstract.”
- Intellectual Depth: Both types share an appreciation for deep conversations and theories. INFJs love the insights you provide, while you appreciate their curiosity and nuanced understanding of human emotions.
INFJs are the perfect blend of heart and mind, offering a sanctuary where your ideas can grow in a nurturing environment.
One INTP shared:
“They’re sweet, loyal, dependable. I need the complementary opposite of Feeling and I think he likes discussing deep topics with me.”
What Do You Think?
Do you have good experiences with these personality types? Are there any stories or insights you’d like to share with us and other readers? Leave a comment to let us know!
Discover even more about your personality type in our eBooks, Discovering You: Unlocking the Power of Personality Type, The INFJ – Understanding the Mystic, The INTJ – Understanding the Strategist, and The INFP – Understanding the Dreamer. You can also connect with me via Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter!
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This did NOT do what the heading said, “the THREE best matches.” Character issues are great, but that does NOT identify the MB types that would have those propensities