21 Signs That You’re an Enneagram 7 “Enthusiast”
Being an Enneagram 7 is like living on a constant high-speed chase. You’ve got a mind that never stops, a calendar that’s probably overbooked, and a knack for turning even the most mundane situations into something fun. I should know, I’m married to a Seven. Known as “The Enthusiast,” Sevens keep life moving in the fast lane. They’re always up for an adventure, always in search of something new, and always on the run from that pesky feeling of boredom. If you’re nodding along already, here are 21 signs you might just be a textbook Enneagram 7. But before we dive right in…
A Quick Background on the Enneagram
The Enneagram isn’t just another personality system that tells you which Hogwarts house you’d belong to (although, spoiler alert, Sevens are probably Gryffindors). It’s a deeper look at the core motivations, fears, and desires that drive us. Enneagram 7s, for example, focus on attaining happiness and avoiding pain or feelings of being trapped. But before you take off on another exciting tangent, it’s worth noting that the real goal for Sevens is learning to be fully present and content—and that sometimes takes some work (and patience, *cringe*).
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21 Signs That You’re an Enneagram 7
#1 – You Have Major FOMO
The idea that something fun might be happening without you? Unacceptable. Whether it’s a party, a trip, or just a casual hangout, if there’s even the slightest chance of missing out, you’re there—probably first in line. This can sometimes mean that you feel a nagging sensation of always missing out on something no matter what you’re doing.
#2 Budgets and Limits? What Are Those?
You hate being told to “stick to a budget” or “follow the plan.” If life’s about experiences, why on earth would you put limits on them? Besides, you’ll figure out the money part later…right? That said, the more you mature and grow, the more you may harness rules and budgets in order to avoid messy or chaotic situations in the future. My Enneagram 7 husband is pretty good at creating a budget now, for example. But he often talks about struggling with this in his younger years.
#3 Traveling is Your Love Language
Nothing excites you more than a new place to explore. The more spontaneous the better! You just might avoid highly detailed plans and itineraries that make you feel boxed into too many specifics.
#4 Boredom is Your Kryptonite
Nothing makes you want to claw your eyes out more than boredom. You’ve got zero tolerance for dull routines or sitting still for too long. That said, part of your pathway towards growth is learning to sit still with the boredom and process the feelings that you’d normally try to avoid. Sure, it can seem overwhelming, but sometimes you’ve got to walk through the darkness to reach the light. You can find out more about that here: The Feelings You Run Away From, Based On Your Enneagram Type
#5 Your Brain is Always Busy
While some people have a slower, focused train of thought, your brain is more like a high-energy circus act. Juggling a dozen ideas at once? Absolutely. Multi-tasking is not a problem for you.
#6 Making People Laugh is Your Superpower
You’ve got a quick wit and a talent for lifting the mood wherever you go. You can find the humor in nearly any situation and use that wit to comfort others and help them see the brighter side of a tough situation.
#7 Soul-Sucking Work is Physical Torture
If a task doesn’t spark some kind of joy, it feels like you’re being slowly suffocated. You need work that excites you, gives you variety, and lets you make an impact.
#8 You Always Find a Way to Get What You Want
When you set your sights on something, you make it happen. Whether it’s sweet-talking your way into a sold-out event or finding a loophole to get what you want, you’ve got it covered.
#9 You’re an Eternal Optimist
No matter how bad things get, you’ll find the silver lining. Sure, the ship might be sinking, but hey—at least the view is nice, right?
#10 There’s a Darker Side to You, But You Avoid It Like the Plague
Yes, there’s a shadowy corner of your mind where darker thoughts linger. But why dwell on that when you can focus on the good stuff? This often stems from a childhood where you felt like you had to distract yourself with toys or activities so as not to focus on your anxiety or pain.
#11 You Crave Variety and Excitement
Routine is your worst enemy. You need variety—whether it’s new experiences, new foods, or just changing up your day-to-day life. Anything to keep things fresh.
#12 Learning Through Trial and Error is Your Thing
Slow and cautious isn’t really your style. Instead, you tend to dive headfirst into things and figure it out as you go. Sure, sometimes it’s messy, but it’s always an adventure, and you’ve become a jack-of-all-trades as a result.
#13 You’re a Dreamer
You’re never short on ideas for the future. From the next big trip to the wildest business venture, your mind is always buzzing with what could be. Now, if only you could decide which one to follow through on…
#14 Staying Active is Key
Whether it’s hitting the gym, taking a walk, or even just fidgeting at your desk, staying physically active helps keep you sane. Sitting still for too long? Not in your nature.
#15 Sadness? Quick! Find a Distraction
When darker emotions like sadness or anxiety creep in, your first instinct is to distract yourself—usually with something fun, exciting, or delicious. But again, while it’s a natural coping mechanism, it isn’t always healthy. You can find out more about that here: What You Need When You’re Overwhelmed, Based On Your Enneagram Type
#16 The Grass is Always Greener
You’ve got a little problem with thinking there’s always something better out there. Whether it’s the next job, the next city, or the next hobby, you’re constantly chasing that elusive greener pasture.
#17 At Your Best, You’re Joyful and Content; At Your Worst, You’re Restless and Escapist
When you’re on top of your game, you’re a joyful, contented soul who can savor the moment without looking for something newer or “better.” But when you’re off? You’re restless, insatiable, and always searching for a distraction.
#18 You’re the Ultimate Social Instigator
You’re the one always getting the group together for fun. Weekend trip? Pub crawl? Random Tuesday adventure? You’re already texting everyone with the details.
#19 You Might Overdo It
Sometimes moderation goes out the window—whether it’s indulging in food, drinks, or thrill-seeking activities. When you’re having fun, you can overdo it without even realizing it. Make sure you take a minute to pause before leaping headlong into the latest adventure. Ask yourself, “Is this really good for me? Will I feel good about this tomorrow?”
#20 You’re a Foodie With a Map to the Best Spots
You know the best places to eat, whether it’s a five-star restaurant or a hidden gem no one else knows about. Good food is part of your lifestyle, and you’re not about to settle for less.
#21 Patience Isn’t Usually Your Strong Suit
When things start moving too slowly, your frustration kicks in. Life’s too short to wait around, and you’d rather people (and situations) moved at your speed.
What Do You Think?
Do you relate to these Enneagram 7 signs? Let us know in the comments! You can find out more about Sevens in some of our other articles below:
The Enneagram 7: The Enthusiast
7 Struggles of the Enneagram Seven Type
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