In my years as an MBTI® practitioner, I’ve found again and again that people are romantically attracted to their opposites. If I had a nickel for every time I saw an ENFP/ISTJ relationship, or ESTP/INFJ relationship, or INTP/ESFJ relationship, I’d have….a lot of nickels. Why is this? I’ve concluded that it comes down to us…
I recently took my family on a camping trip in the Smoky Mountains National Park. It was amazing, exhausting, beautiful, and filled with ups and downs (including a black bear knocking over containers outside our tent in the night!). During the trip I started imagining all the funny ways that each of the 16 personality…
Do you ever feel an unexplained pull towards mentorship? Do you give advice regularly? Instead of advice, do you provide support or empathy? We all have our unique ways of mentoring those around us, just like how we all have our own preference for pizza toppings. Some of us are like the extra cheese on…
As an MBTI® practitioner, I’m often asked questions about the letter preferences and what they mean. One of the letter preferences that confuses people the most is the N or S preference. How does this single letter preference shape our personalities, our perceptions, and ultimately, our interactions with the world around us? Join me as…
Enneagram Threes, often termed ‘The Achievers,’ typically exude confidence, charisma, and an innate drive for success. When healthy, they are industrious, adaptable, and inspiring—truly a force to be reckoned with. However, like all personality types, Threes are not immune to periods of imbalance or unhealthiness. I personally am a 3, and while I’d like to…
