The ISTP Ti-Ni loop: What it is and how to deal
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The ISTP Ti-Ni Loop: What it is and How to Cope

Ever feel like you’re stuck in a mental fog,  feeling anxious about a conclusion or possibility that seems looming in the distance? Or perhaps you feel like your relationships are in jeopardy; people are getting offended and you don’t know why, or you’re losing touch with your normal grounded connection to nature and reality. This…

Enneagram 2 vs 9: Which one are you? Find out in our article
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Enneagram 2 vs Enneagram 9: Which Are You?

When it comes to Enneagram types, people can sometimes feel torn between two types that seem similar on the surface but have very different core motivations. I got a comment this week from a reader trying to decide whether she was more 2 or 9. This is a common question and one that I’ve gotten…

An in-depth look at the INFJ and INTJ relationship and the pros and cons, joys and struggles
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Your Guide to the INFJ and INTJ Relationship

Over the last couple of years, I’ve received numerous requests for a post about INFJ and INTJ relationships. This pairing is extremely rare, simply because these two types combined only compose 3.6% of the US population! If they are lucky enough to meet each other, they tend to have an instant spark because of their…

27 signs that you're an INTJ personality type
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27 Signs That You’re an INTJ, the “Strategist” Personality Type

INTJs are one of the rarest personality types in the Myers-Briggs® system, making up a mere 2.1% of the U.S. population. If you’re an INTJ, you share your personality type with intellectual geniuses like Ayn Rand, Isaac Newton, and Stephen Hawking. These Strategists are known for their rationality, insight, and high standards. If you’ve gotten…

INFJs and their relationships and compatibility with other personality types
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Are You Compatible? INFJs and Relationships

What do INFJs need and want in relationships? Today we’re exploring some common struggles and joys these types face when trying to find “the one.” As an MBTI® practitioner, I’ve been asked dozens of times if there is a “best match” for the INFJ, and I’m hoping to dive into that today as well (opinions…