Heart types—Enneagram 2s, 3s, and 4s—are driven by the need to be loved, valued, and seen for who they truly are. But deep down, they grapple with shame and feelings of inadequacy. They felt a deep sense of being unloved for who they truly were as children. Twos felt they were only loved if they…
Let’s face it – we all get selfish. No need to sugarcoat it. But depending on your Enneagram type, selfishness shows up in different flavors. Many times when we’re being selfish, we don’t even realize our motivations; instead, we’re moving on autopilot. Becoming aware of the signs that we’re being selfish can help us to…
When it comes to personality type, there are literally no two people who are exactly the same. You might perceive the world using the same functions or share attributes with other feeling or thinking types, but no one can completely replicate you. One of the reasons there can be such drastic differences between people of…
Do you ever feel like there are two competing sides of yourself that are constantly at war with each other? I know I do. Maybe that sounds weird, but it’s true. As an Enneagram Four I want to have deep connections with people who see me for who I truly am, but then when I’m…
Ping! New email. Text. Emoji wall. Hand gestures. Microexpressions. We communicate face-to-face, through pixels over the Web, and over the phone. Communication itself is repeatedly deemed as one of the most important skills of the 21st-century digital age, along with emotional intelligence. The Enneagram can help you have better conversations with others, in-person and through…
