ISTJs are competent individuals with a strong work ethic, a fun sense of humor, and a curious mind to boot. They are certainly interesting cookies. But how do they fare when it comes to flirting? Much like ISFJs, ISTJs need some level of comfort with a person to move into the flirting realm. This isn’t…
Today I’m going to talk about how ISFJs flirt. Am I really going there? Yes, dears. Most of us probably think flirting entails coy touches, smooth words, and general confidence when approaching one’s love interest. I’d agree, as it can. It can also look like a whole lot of other things, which plays out in…
As an ISFJ, “unsettled” is my least favorite word. “Change” also gets me going. But my NP friends love these terms. Where I see a danger in the major life shifts that are, seemingly, forced upon me from the heavens, they see potential in what could come from not being tied down. They can even…
The INFJ and ISTP relationship is one that I’ve seen dozens of times as an MBTI® practitioner. Why do these two types wind up together so often? Well, it all boils down to opposites (sort of) attracting. Let’s take a look at the mental processes of the INFJ and the ISTP: The INFJ and ISTP…
We all like to believe we’re doing our best—making thoughtful decisions, acting with kindness, and staying true to our values. For the Dreamer types (INFPs, INFJs, ENFPs, and ENFJs), this can feel especially important. These types are often seen as idealistic, compassionate, and visionary, striving to bring meaning and connection to the world. But let’s…
