ENFJs put a lot of consideration and empathy in their relationships with people. They are almost always conscientious, enthusiastic, and warm. They work hard to ensure that all their friends and family members feel listened to, cared for, and understood. Sometimes their charisma and friendliness aren’t returned, or it’s misunderstood by other types. Harsh words…
ENFJs are known for their empathy, compassion, and vision. They can be excellent peacemakers and inspirational leaders. But what happens when fights break out or arguments erupt? Conflict is anathema to ENFJs and while they can be excellent at resolving it quickly, they can also struggle with having their needs met and their issues heard…
Dominant Fe-users get a bad rap for being “fake” or “overly-bubbly” too much in my opinion. When my ENFJ sister was in college, she’d run into classmates who would accuse her of being fake, or not being “real” enough. It drove me crazy (and her) because I knew the outgoing, friendly, enthusiastic person she was…
Have you ever discovered that one friend who seems to literally feel your hurts and pains as well as your joys and triumphs? While all people, even dominant thinking types, can empathize, ENFJs and INFJs have an especially uncanny ability to step into your shoes. To quote one of my favorite fictional INFJs, Atticus Finch,…
I’ve talked a lot about stress on this blog and how each personality type reacts, but sometimes words aren’t enough! I decided to put together infographics to show what really happens internally when we experience stress. This infographic is for the ENFJs, but I will be posting infographics for each of the personality types over…
