What are the Idealist Personality Types? Find Out if You Are One!

In today’s article we’re going to describe what it really means to be an Idealist personality type. The Idealists are four of the Myers-Briggs® personality types that are exemplified by their search for purpose, their profound imaginations, and warm empathy.

Are You an Idealist?

According to psychologist David Keirsey, Idealists are on a perpetual search for self. Their ultimate longing is to know who they are and how they can be their truest, most authentic selves. A search for becoming, for meaning, and for something outside the extraordinary is their aim.

Psychologist David Keirsey, author of Please Understand Me

Idealists have an intuitive understanding of the world and are usually quite in tune with their own emotions and those of others. They often have a strong creative streak, which can be seen in how they view the world from unique angles, think outside the box, or recognize patterns and connections between events.

According to Keirsey, the Idealist hungers for self-actualization; to become “real.” Often, Idealists have a sense of destiny, and are compelled to search for what they were meant to be and an identity which is uniquely their own. For the Idealist, life is an endless wandering; a path full of spiritual discovery, psychological understanding, and emotional exploration.

“To be a grain of sand lost on a beach with millions of other grains is to be nothing. To be lost in the crowd, to have the same meaning as others, to share a faceless identity is not to be at all. In order to make a difference and maintain individuality, the unique contributions made by the Idealist in his roles as a worker, friend, lover, parent, leader, son, daughter, homemaker, wife, husband, creator must be recognized. No matter how the NF structures his time and relationships, he needs to have meaning.” – David Keirsey

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Which Personality Types Are the Idealists?

The Idealists are composed of two introverted and two extroverted Myers-Briggs® personality types. All four of these personality types have the letters “NF” in the middle of their type codes. The four Idealist personality types are: ENFJ, ENFP, INFJ, and INFP.

The Road to Becoming

The ultimate goal of the Intuitive-Feeling Idealist is to have integrity. Ultimately, these personality types fear living a false life; wearing a facade, a mask, or being pretentious and inauthentic. Integrity is found in honesty, purpose, and vulnerable realness. To be phony or false is to lose the self and therefore to go against the very essence of the Idealist.

Idealists often struggle to find meaning, connection and identity in the midst of their many roles and responsibilities. In order to reach self-actualization and become whole persons, they must reconcile their many selves; their inner child with the adult, the lover vs. parent, male or female, etc. To know and accept all aspects of themselves is to create an identity that is true, whole and meaningful.

The Idealist’s purpose in life is to become fully realized; to bring creative contributions into the world that express their unique identity. The search for self-actualization might be long and winding, but ultimately it leads to a place of deep satisfaction and fulfillment.

The Search for Significance

“Those who dream by day are cognisant of many things which escape those who dream only by night” – Edgar Allen Poe

Idealists want a life that is extraordinary and full of discovery and purpose. Because of this, they can bring a deep sense of meaning, intensity, and passion into their relationships. One doesn’t marry someone simply because they get along and have a mutual attraction; one marries them because they are passionately in love and have the potential to grow and evolve together on life’s journey.

Although Idealists make up only 12% of the general population*, they have made a huge impact on the world today. Most of our writers, dramatists, poets, and dreamers have been Idealists, as well as many of our philosophers and spiritual leaders. Martin Luther King Jr., Mahatma Gandhi, Soren Kierkegaard, and Edgar Allan Poe are just a few of the Idealists who have made a lasting impression on our culture.

Because Idealists think about the fundamental questions of life and ask “Why?”, they are often compelled to explore the unknown; to discover what lies beneath the surface. These imaginative, heart-focused individuals bring a unique perspective into their relationships and surroundings that can help us reexamine our assumptions and beliefs about the world we live in. They aim to inspire, persuade, enlighten, and intuit.

As Keirsey said, “The search for meaning as a necessary pilgrimage for all people is advanced by the NFs in their writings.” And indeed, many Idealists sense the power of the written word and use that medium to explore the abstract musings of their inner life.

Idealist Franz Kafka (INFP) said it best, “You do not need to leave your room. Remain sitting at your table and listen. Do not even listen, simply wait, be quiet still and solitary. The world will freely offer itself to you to be unmasked; it has no choice, it will roll in ecstasy at your feet.”

The Empathy of the Idealist

Idealists are firm believers in putting themselves in other people’s shoes. They often can sense the emotional state of those around them, and their insights can be uncanny to those who are not used to being “read” so easily. The Idealist has a capacity for empathy that is startling in its intensity, giving them the ability to relate with people on a deep emotional level.

Idealists are driven by emotion – they are passionate, empathetic, and deeply caring individuals. They tend to gravitate towards helping professions such as social work or counseling they have a strong desire contribute something meaningful to the world. Any work where the Idealist can guide people towards their potential is valuable to them. Keirsey stated, “They tend to see potential good in everyone and often devote their lives to the cultivation of this potential.”

A Look at the Four Idealist Personality Types

The ENFJs

“Let it never be said by future generations that indifference, cynicism or selfishness made us fail to live up to [our] ideals.” – Nelson Mandela, ENFJ

ENFJs, or “the Mentors”, are warm, passionate communicators who use their insight and intuition to connect with people in an emotional way. Of the Idealists, ENFJs are often the leaders. Due to their charisma and emotional understanding, people are drawn to them and they tend to amass followers without even having to try.

According to the latest research, ENFJs make up 3-5% of the U.S. population, so they are a fairly rare personality type, yet they make a huge impact. They often feel responsible for the feelings of others, and readily communicate concern, empathy, and a willingness to understand. Sometimes this comes as a blessing and a curse. They may over-identify with others and absorb their pain, turmoil, and burdens as if they were their own. In this process, they can feel like they are beginning to lose themselves. That’s why it’s especially important for this type to make time for quiet meditation and solitude. Even though they are extroverted, they need to have breaks where they can tap into their honest feelings and ideas.

As Intuitive-Judging types, ENFJs have strong hunches and insights, especially in regards to people. When an ENFJ listens carefully to someone’s story, they can often intuit what the speaker wants or needs even if they don’t explicitly say it. It’s frequent for people to feel like they’re having their mind read by the ENFJ. Keirsey even states, “Seldom is an ENFJ wrong about the motivations or intent of another, hidden or not.”

As Judging types, ENFJs like to have a plan and a vision for their future. They often map out their activities in advance, and because of their organized nature, they are often placed in positions of leadership. That said, ENFJs don’t typically mind being followers if they believe in the integrity of the leader or movement. The important thing for the ENFJ is that they are seeing continual progress towards their goal and people aren’t getting too sidetracked by meaningless details.

Find out more about ENFJs: 24 Signs That You’re an ENFJ, the Mentor Personality Type

The INFJs

“My life is an indivisible whole, and all my activities run into one another … they all have their rise in my insatiable love of mankind.” – Mahatma Gandhi, INFJ

Often called the “Mystics”, INFJs have an extraordinary need to contribute to the well-being of people. Insightful and empathic, they aren’t afraid to delve into complex issues that people are facing.

As dominant intuitives, INFJs are naturally wired to spot ripple-effects, patterns, and likely effects. Keirsey states that “If a person demonstrates an ability to understand psychic phenomenon better than most persons, this person is apt to be an INFJ.

While this doesn’t mean that all INFJs are psychics necessarily, it does mean that INFJs notice clues that foretell future possibilities with great clarity. This is why they are so often sought out for advice – it’s almost like they can see further ahead than most people and therefore anticipate potential problems that are on the horizon. Often their intuitions are of an empathic nature; they may notice when someone is emotionally distressed or agitated, even if they don’t say it or show it.

Along with their insight comes a strong sense of morality. INFJs have little tolerance for injustice and often strive to bring out the best in everyone, both by speaking up against wrong-doing and also by being a positive role model that people can look up to. Leading by example is something that INFJs take seriously, and they have the motivation to push people towards a higher calling.

Because INFJs are introverts, they can be hard to get to know. The inner world is highly satisfying for this type, and it can be tempting for them to spend all their time alone. In the quiet moments they can explore insights, imaginative possibilities, or philosophies that have the potential to offer healing in some way. If people can understand and appreciate this about INFJs, then it becomes easier for them to relate. It’s fairly common for people who have known INFJs for a long time to realize after many years that they have only scratched the surface in getting to know them.

Even though INFJs are introverts, they are deeply concerned with the emotional worlds of people. Because of this, they often overextend themselves in trying to meet the needs of everyone around them. Over time, this can lead to burnout, and they may suddenly disappear, trying to recoup and recharge. Knowing this, it’s important for INFJs to allow themselves time to be alone and not feel guilty about it.

Find out more about INFJs: 24 Signs You’re an INFJ, the Mystic Personality Type

The ENFP

“The worst of us is not without innocence. … In my work I try to reach and speak to that innocence.” – Walt Disney, ENFP

Called the “Visionaries”, ENFPs see every situation in life as having some significance. Every situation, every object, and every person carries with it a sense of possibility and a potential for change. There’s a buzz of excitement and energy that surrounds ENFPs, the sense that anything truly is possible.

ENFPs are perpetually searching for what is new, creative, and inspiring in every situation. This can be both a boon and a curse as it allows them to view the world through fresh eyes but also makes them vulnerable to shiny object syndrome – constantly chasing after the newest and most interesting theory, idea, or possibility. Keirsey states of ENFPs, “They are keen and penetrating observers and are capable of intense concentration on another individual while being aware of what is going on about them. Their attention is never passive or casual, never wandering, but always directed.”

Naturally, ENFPs are driven to understand their moral code. They stand up for their beliefs and those of other people, often leading the charge on important causes that they believe in. They are motivated by values such as social justice, equality, and creativity – things they feel strongly can benefit everyone if given the opportunity. At the same time, they don’t like to tell people how to live their lives and feel a certain repugnance towards very black and white rules for living. You may meet two ENFPs with entirely different values, but one thing they will all share is a belief in personal freedom.

In addition to the ENFPs humanitarian goals, they also like to approach life with a certain playfulness and enthusiasm that can be contagious. Their creative spirit is at home in any situation where fun, laughter, and living life to the fullest prevail. They bring an energy of exploration and an openness to learning something new every day.

ENFPs are often at their best in situations where Judging types would feel out of place. When life is chaotic and ever-changing, ENFPs ride the wave and find the fun and potential in unpredictable environments. They are unafraid to try something new, and their ability to quickly spot patterns and connections make them an asset in any creative endeavor or project. Finding a window of opportunity in the midst of the storm – that’s the ENFP way.

Find out more about ENFPs: 24 Signs That You’re an ENFP, The Visionary Personality Type

The INFP

“My own heroes are the dreamers, those … who tried to make the world a better place. … Some failed … but it is the effort that’s heroic, as I see it.” – George R.R. Martin, INFP

Known as the “Dreamers”, INFPs are highly intuitive, imaginative people who often feel a deep connection to their personal values. They have a hunger for integrity and self-knowledge, and live their lives according to these beliefs rather than trying to conform to what society or others expect of them. It is crucial for INFPs to march to the beat of their own drum and not be influenced by peer pressure or conformity.

On the outside, INFPs often appear calm, gentle, and even shy. Yet underneath their reserved disposition is a wealth of passion, imagination, and conviction. Keirsey states, “They care deeply – indeed, passionately – about a few special persons or a cause. One word that captures this type is idealistic. At times, this characteristic leaves them feeling isolated, especially since INFPs are found in only 1 percent of the general population.”

As Idealists, INFPs care about filling their minds and hearts with things that inspire them. They respond highly to hidden beauty, to sentimental objects, to idealistic visions, and stories of good triumphing over evil. Their natural eye for the beautiful, pure, and good, also gives them an awareness of its opposite. They may have one eye on the beautiful and one eye also scanning for the ugly, evil, or decrepit. Because of this, they try to find something pure and innocent in even the most seemingly hopeless or dark things. Many INFPs find themselves curious about the villains or monsters in the story; they want to know what made them turn out that way. They have a deep need to find the inner core of a person and discover the goodness that lies inside.

INFPs have strong personal convictions and a sense of integrity that guides their actions. They stay true to themselves and live life according to what they believe is right – even if it means making some hard choices or standing alone in their beliefs. They are also driven by an inner desire for harmony and peace, which often leads them to help others. All Idealists want to make the world a better place and INFPs are no exception. They strive for growth and development, always looking for ways to improve both themselves and society as a whole.

Find out more about INFPs: 24 Signs That You’re an INFP, the Dreamer Personality Type

What Are Your Thoughts?

Do you relate to any of these personality types? Do you have any insights you’d like to share with fellow readers? Let us know in the comments!

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*(Source: Please Understand Me: Character & Temperament Types by David Keirsey and Marilyn Bates)

MBTI® Manual: A Guide to the Development and Use of the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator® Instrument by Isabel Briggs Myers, Mary H. McCaulley, Naomi L. Quenk, and Allen L. Hammer

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